Live Life Unapologetically

115 What Is the Meaning of Manifesting Secure Feminine Wealth?

• Shannon Kline • Episode 115

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If you’ve been pressuring your business to save you, prove your worth, or be your only source of wealth, this episode is your wake-up call. Shannon untangles the real root of scarcity, breaks down the block that most women don’t even know they’re carrying, and redefines what it actually means to manifest secure feminine wealth…without the hustle, without the panic, and without apology.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why putting all your worth in your business is an energetic trap

  • How society teaches women to earn wealth through over-efforting

  • What feminine wealth actually is (and how to embody it)

  • How your nervous system holds the key to receiving

  • The shift from desperation to overflow, and how to actually live it

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Speaker 1:

Welcome back to the Live Life Unapologetically podcast. I'm Shannon, and today we're going to have a conversation that I think way too many women in business need to hear, especially those of us who are putting everything on the line to make it work. We're diving into the real meaning of manifesting secure feminine wealth, not just in theory, but in a way that hits home and calls you into something deeper. Most of us aren't taught to see wealth as something that we're safe to receive. We're taught that we have to earn it, to justify it, to work for it, and, especially in business, that conditioning can run deep. So today I want to untangle that pressure, expose the subtle ways that we block what we're asking for, and invite you into a version of manifesting that doesn't require your business to be your savior. So grab your favorite drink, cozy up and let's get started. Let's dive right into why your business isn't your savior, because your business was never meant to carry the weight of your entire life. However, that's what a lot of us end up doing. We start a business to gain freedom, but very quickly that business becomes another form of pressure. It becomes the thing that has to succeed, the thing that has to make us money the thing that has to prove we're not just dreaming big, we're doing something real with our lives. And that's a dangerous energetic setup. When your business becomes your only path to wealth, it also becomes the place you pin all your fear, scarcity and survival mode. Now, suddenly, you're not just building something powerful, it's about proving something, fixing something, saving yourself, and that puts you in a place of energetic desperation, not abundance. The shift really is that your business is a vehicle. You are the source, you are the one manifesting, you are the one holding the vision. You are the one with the capacity to receive from anywhere Clients, yes, but also partnerships, surprise money, divine timing, referrals, unexpected opportunities and even gifts or rest that can create space for more wealth to come in. Your business gets to support that, but it's not the end-all, to be-all of your wealth. It's one channel. You are the source, but let's talk about how this is a difficult idea for us to comprehend because of how society teaches us about money and why what we're taught is truly a problem.

Speaker 1:

Because I got curious prepping for this episode, so I started to search variations of the question what are the most common ways to get money? Where does money come from? I wanted to see what answers were out there and, honestly, I was not shocked, but I was deeply annoyed. Every single result had some version of the same output Start a side hustle, get a better job, invest in real estate, launch a product, sell something, trade time for dollars. All of it was about producing, about doing something to earn the right to receive.

Speaker 1:

And please do not get me wrong, I'm not against a strategy of working. I'm not anti-business. Obviously I have one. I live in the real world and I teach women how to organize their strategies all the time. But what I am against is this idea that money can only come from a grind. That belief that money equals labor is one of the core ways that women stay energetically blocked. And when I say women, I mean especially women in business, because if you believe your wealth can only come through effort, you will always over-effort, you will work too hard, you will stay in survival mode, you will measure your worth by your output, you will believe that rest is lazy and you will miss the deeper power of receivership. There are energetics to receivership and we can block that at times without realizing it.

Speaker 1:

Receivership isn't just about saying yes, I'm open to money. It's about being anchored in your body, in your nervous system, in your belief that money can come to you without panic attached to it. But most of us women were never taught how to feel safe receiving. We were taught to prove, to overgive, to discount, to keep serving even when we're depleted. So we might be visualizing checks or saying affirmations, but inside we're still bracing for rejection, we're bracing for disappointment, we're bracing for someone to say you don't deserve that. And your nervous system picks up on that energy long before your subconscious mind does. If receiving doesn't feel safe, you're going to constantly repel what you say you want. You'll push it away, avoid it or self-sabotage the moment as it shows up. This is why I say regulation is not just self-care, it's a manifestation strategy. Manifestation is not about trying harder, even though we were taught that we should try harder at everything, but we don't have to. Manifestation is about becoming the kind of woman who can hold what she is asking for without shrinking, without apologizing, without guilt.

Speaker 1:

As many of you know, I love watching TV series, things that I can binge, long series, and for some reason I was like I'm going to go watch Desperate Housewives again as I was coming into an episode last night, before I started winding down to go to sleep, it was the episode where Bree she's married to Orson. Bree's been through lots of different things and she has a successful business now. Her husband, orson, was out of jail. He can't be a dentist anymore because, you know, he went to jail for something he did. Life isn't going great for Orson and Bree's life's going great and Orson feels like he's just shrinking. He doesn't feel like he's equal to her or he's providing for her. She's just basically too big for him.

Speaker 1:

I see this look on her face of wow, I need to shrink. You have this woman who was a housewife her whole life, taking care of her kids. I mean, say what you want about her character, but she basically gave up her life. One of her husbands died, her other kids grew up and she starts this business and really pulls herself up. She's wildly successful. And now her husband, who's back from prison, feels small. His wife is too big. And before I turn the TV off, I didn't finish the episode, so I don't know what happens next. But she calls someone and says look, I know you've been wanting to buy my wildly successful business and I know I've said no, but now I'm open to that. Let's talk about me selling my business to you and her husband's, sitting right there with a smile on his face.

Speaker 1:

And it made me sick that a powerful woman who had so much going for her would shrink to make her husband feel better because he couldn't find his own space, that for him to feel like a husband, for him to feel like a man, for him to feel good about himself, he needed her to shrink herself. And I know that this is make-believe, I know that this is just a TV series, but honestly, it parallels life so much that women especially will shrink themselves, they will apologize and they will feel guilty for taking up too much space, for being big, for shining their light. And that's what we do when we are building our businesses, this receivership. You get too big and we shrink down. We don't hold what we ask for because of others, so we shrink it or apologize or we feel guilty, because that's what society has taught us to do. And that's why I love speaking with and working with and helping women business owners, because this is truly a shift we have to make in society that we can be wildly successful.

Speaker 1:

You being wildly successful does not take away from anyone else, you being wildly successful. If it makes other people feel small, that's a them problem, it is not a you problem. But as women, we feel that deeply in our souls and so we stay small. And today is a day to be big and to be open and to receive unapologetically when it comes to this feeling of our business being our savior. We want it to be our savior, we want it to take us to new heights, but there's these blocks that keep us. Not only do we look at our businesses to be our saviors and this is really where the blocks come in with energetic receivership, I want my business to save me it's the end, all to be all to give me this life I want, but then I'm going to block it or I'm going to shrink back because now I am too big.

Speaker 1:

Really, what this episode proved to me is that women can be wildly successful, but then we shrink back and then we go forward and then we shrink back, and it's really a pattern and it's societal that my success can only come from my work. But also my work can't make other people feel bad about themselves, and so it's like this internal struggle. I just really want to reiterate that how someone feels about themselves is how they feel about themselves. All of us myself, you, people around us. How we feel about us comes from inside. Nobody can make you feel great all the time. You have to be the one that takes responsibility and says I'm going to feel great about me because I feel great about me, I can coach somebody. You can have a coach, a mentor, a spouse, a friend, whoever it is. It's not someone else's responsibility to make us feel good. It is our own responsibility to love ourselves enough to feel good. So when you start to grow and a lot of times as women, when we grow and we get big oh my God, women aren't supposed to be that big and when we shrink back, but we also carry this idea that my business is the end, all to be all, and we put all this pressure on ourselves and we block in that way too.

Speaker 1:

Society does affect how we move, but we have to go deep inside ourselves and say I'm going to change the narrative, I am going to do something different. I am not going to subscribe to that. I've been there. I've been the woman who needed her business to work right now, because I desperately wanted to escape a job and a career field that I once loved so much, but it was crushing me and it was killing my soul daily. I put pressures on myself to launch things before they were ready, and when I say before they were ready, that was before I was like internally ready, because I was really doing it for it to save me. So that was desperation. I convinced myself that if I didn't hit a goal, it meant that I wasn't meant for business. I wasn't good for business because you know it has to be perfect right out of the gate, and none of that brought me closer to abundance.

Speaker 1:

What changed was the moment when I realized I was trying to force my business to be the only source of wealth in my life. I wanted it to save me from a career that I didn't love anymore, instead of being an outlet for, yes, money, but also for purpose and service in my life. I had to shift from desperation to overflow, from I need this to work to I trust myself to receive, no matter what channel it comes through. And when I made that shift, opportunities started showing up that I didn't even plan for. Money came from places I wasn't even tracking and I started to trust again. And that's when the floodgates opened, you see, when you need your business to be the end-all, be-all.

Speaker 1:

That is once again where you go into scarcity, because you're so scared it won't work that you bring that energy with you. Or even if you're like, nope, this is going to work, this has to work, you bring that, this has to. That's scarcity. That's saying this is the only thing that's going to make my life what I want my life to be like. And so we don't think of that as scarcity, because we believe oh, scarcity means I don't believe there's enough, I absolutely believe there's enough. The scarcity in this case is I'm scared that this is the only place money can come from. Money can't come from anywhere else. So this has to work. For me, scarcity is saying that money can only come from this place. It's not available anywhere else but my business but through work, but through output.

Speaker 1:

And I want to break that down, because that's the part that really redefines what manifesting means. If you hustle well, that's built through performance. You're going to work long hours, you're going to push yourself past your limits to earn every inch. It's grind and grit, with the occasional crumbs of rest and, yes, you can make money that way, but the cost is usually high.

Speaker 1:

Now, feminine wealth is built through alignment and we're not taught this because we don't live in a society that values feminine wealth. But feminine wealth is rooted in intuition. It's rooted in openness, timing, boundaries and embodiment. It honors both energy and structure. It honors flow and sustainability. It doesn't mean you never work. It means your work is supported by belief, capacity and trust.

Speaker 1:

And that's the real meaning of manifesting. It's not about waiting for magic. It's about choosing to believe in your own creative power and then building a life that supports that belief. And I want to say it again, I want to say it for the woman in the back, I want to say it right to you right now You're the source. Your business is not your savior, you are. Your wealth is not dependent on how hard you push. It's dependent on how deeply you trust, how regulated you are and how available you are to receive.

Speaker 1:

And when you start treating your business as one avenue of abundance not the only one, it's just an avenue of abundance you'll stop chasing and you'll start choosing. You'll stop forcing and you'll start flowing. You'll start manifesting, not from desperation but from overflow. And if any of this hits you in the gut. It is not a coincidence For those of you who are new here. That is what Manifest she is all about. That is why this podcast, live Life, unapologetically exists. It's to support you.

Speaker 1:

You can grab the Manifest she magazine today. It is free. It is a free monthly resource that you get to help change the narrative, to change the narrative that was embedded into us throughout our whole lives. So you can grab that today. And if you really want some momentum in your business that's not desperation, but it's true momentum grab the Manifest Momentum Ritual. I'll also link that in the show notes because that moves us forward in abundance. Everything I teach is built on one truth and that's that you have the power, you are the power, you are the source, and you don't need to hustle to prove it. I love you, I believe in you and I will chat with you next week.